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The Toxicity Issue

Discussion in 'Announcements and Information' started by Rezima, Aug 28, 2014.

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  1. TAP123

    TAP123 New Member

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    So already, case in point. Say something possibly passive aggressive, then edit your post when you're called out on it. This is what I'm talking about. Call me a whiner all you want and blame me for being troublesome, but seriously this is what I'm worried about all along.
     
  2. MEAN GREEN BAD MACHINE

    MEAN GREEN BAD MACHINE Notorious B.A.D.

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    Those two aren't buzzwords, but what they are is heavily subjective.
     
  3. Switchback

    Switchback Iss likess fissh eyess~!

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    well this blew up way bigger then it seemed too... and not in a good way.
     
  4. Kazyyk

    Kazyyk Administrator

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    I changed the phrase because I realized I got the saying wrong. I had to look it up to make sure.
     
  5. TAP123

    TAP123 New Member

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    Passive aggressive people just speak words to. If you have a problem with me, message me, don't try to undermine me with little comments that you know the community will support because you're the admin.
     
  6. Aiko Ikari

    Aiko Ikari Guest

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    @ All of you
     
  7. Rezima

    Rezima New Member

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    Because we would rather NOT single anyone out based on some 'personal bias'
    And honestly? You aren't really an issue, you are blunt and direct, but you are rarely outright offensive or insulting
     
  8. Kazyyk

    Kazyyk Administrator

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    There's posts coming in here faster than I can keep reloading the page.
     
  9. MEAN GREEN BAD MACHINE

    MEAN GREEN BAD MACHINE Notorious B.A.D.

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    [​IMG]
     
  10. LaserLlamas

    LaserLlamas Mother of the Pack

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    Join the club.
     
  11. Kazyyk

    Kazyyk Administrator

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    So I just deleted one of TAP's posts because I felt it was excessive. TAP, please message me privately if you have an issue. Thanks.
    Don't worry about admin/mod abuse, we're just trying to clean things up and keep it clean.
    Everyone else, don't take my side. I'm not going to ban you for disagreeing with me.

    EDIT: I meant to say, don't take my side if you disagree with me. There's no reason to be afraid.
     
  12. invictus69

    invictus69 New Member

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    1. Passive agressive has intent behind it, mindlessly typing does not.
    2. It was said in jest. If you didnt know 'I bet your fun at parties' Is a way of saying 'You're too serious/downer"
    3. You're getting overly defensive, no one is trying to undermine what you're saying, and lastly that very last bit about the community being on Kazyyks side simply because he's admin was not needed. You don't speak for everyone, I can speak for myself, I personally have no strong feelings for kazyyks, positive or negative. Hes just some guy trying to do a good job.

    -edit-
    I DINDT MEAN TO QUOTE YOU BADBURRY, IGNORE THIS
     
  13. skipi

    skipi New Member

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    I've witnessed him very obviously been indirectly called toxic by some members of the community. I kinda have trouble believing he isn't on some sort of shit-list.
     
  14. TAP123

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    So that's a real response to a lengthy worded comment that has sincere meaning behind it? You're practically acting like people on this server who you're working to stop. Unless you're trying to troll me into starting a flame war so I can get banned with this new rule, I can't tell the difference.
     
  15. Avis

    Avis Halloweenie of the Serengeti

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    I'm gonna step in here, however out of place it is.

    This wouldn't be such an issue for anyone if you didn't assume it was the mod team being out to get you. It isn't.
     
  16. skipi

    skipi New Member

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    bait*
     
  17. LaserLlamas

    LaserLlamas Mother of the Pack

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    Well this is becoming a bit of a mess. Anyone have a bike lock?
     
  18. Kazyyk

    Kazyyk Administrator

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    Stop.
     
  19. TAP123

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    Here we go. Interpretation, opinions. Why does it matter? So an admin says I'm too serious or a downer for a commentary I made. But then I'm expected to consider his rules seriously without second thought.

    Nobody ever takes things seriously until they want them to. That's not necessarily the clear cut solution to mediating things.
     
  20. Pie4Pigs

    Pie4Pigs Bleach Connoisseur

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    Welp, this thread was counterproductive.
     
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