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Bullying

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Julius Mayne, Nov 25, 2014.

  1. Avis

    Avis Halloweenie of the Serengeti

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    My opinion on bullying is that it makes more sense to teach children to be thick-skinned and independent, as opposed to being a society of victims. Should bullying be discouraged? Yes, of course, but making children feel like it is a black and white problem with a simple solution makes little sense. People are meant to learn, be independent problem solvers, and to be able to experience life as it is.

    While it's a noble cause to try and stop bullying, it's just not something that will happen. It's like trying to end poverty, or making world peace. It's corny to say, but it's true.
     
  2. Kazyyk

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    The US has a lot of liberties and a unique culture. I had an anti-America European friend once who left for Europe, and after a year there, he wishes he could come back. (He can't because he can't afford it.)
     
  3. Avis

    Avis Halloweenie of the Serengeti

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    That's what he gets for being a commie.
     
  4. Kazyyk

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    European =/= Communist
     
  5. Avis

    Avis Halloweenie of the Serengeti

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    UnAmerican=Communist
     
  6. Kazyyk

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    Not always, that's just a stereotype. You can like democracy and still not like the people running the show.
     
  7. Sen

    Sen Guest

    only america could figure out how to make the act of torturing children profitable
     
  8. Toadkid1234

    Toadkid1234 New Member

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    He's supporting the communists.
    Ergo, he is communist.
    Ergo, server is communist.
    Ergo, pixels shouldnt exist cuz currency
    Ergo, Kaz is not true communist.
    Ergo, quit server.
     
  9. Kazyyk

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    It's leaps of logic like that that get people into trouble.
     
  10. Toadkid1234

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    ((OOC OOC: Sometimes I cant tell if Kaz is serious or has a really epic dry sense of humor))
     
  11. Avis

    Avis Halloweenie of the Serengeti

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    It depends on the mood, I think. But right now I think it's the second one >_>

    But look at this, we've derailed a thoughtful and emphatic thread.
     
  12. Julius Mayne

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    You've helped my purpose entirely. By just rambling here, you call more attention to the thread and by extension the video and article. It's why I don't complain about derailment on this one.
     
  13. Avis

    Avis Halloweenie of the Serengeti

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    If you say so ;)
     
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  15. QuestionableMotives

    QuestionableMotives Not To Be Trusted

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    Bullying is never gonna end, and I hate to admit it. For some reason, some people find it neccesary, entertaining, whatever you want to call it just to put someone else down. For me, as a high school student (where bullying seems to be most noticable, but thankfully im not in that bad of a school), i feel as if all these anti bullying programs should be geared less towards telling the bullies to stop, but telling the bullied that they should NOT put up with being a victim.
    I completely get that there are some people that cannot or will not stand up for themselves, but I think spreading a message of 'Don't be a bystander/Don't allow yourself to be a victim' will inspire people that would normally just let it happen to stand up for others/themselves, and would be much more effective than the message of 'Don't be a bully'.
     
  16. The Grand Mugwump

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    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect
     
  17. QuestionableMotives

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    That's not much of an arguement against what I proposed; considering I pretty much said that we need to try and get rid of the bystander effect by telling people not to be bystanders in the first place
     
  18. The Grand Mugwump

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    I was arguing against your proposal?
     
  19. QuestionableMotives

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    Were you? I took it as an arguement, but it's difficult to tell the tone of a person over the internet :p
     
  20. Aiko Ikari

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    Your motives are so questionable